Meet New People
☰ Meet New People
Meet New People
2025-06-19
Ever get that feeling that you'd love to have more people in your life - someone to grab a coffee with, chat about random stuff, or just be around? You’re definitely not the only one. A lot of us go through times when friendships feel a little too distant or missing altogether.
If that sounds familiar, maybe it’s time to open up your social circle. Here are 10 down-to-earth ways to meet people and (hopefully) find some genuine connections.
1. Try out local events, classes, or hobby groups
Whether it’s yoga, painting, dancing, or board games – getting involved in something you actually enjoy is a great way to meet people naturally. You don’t need to fake small talk when you already have something in common. Check local Facebook groups, the community center, or even the library for ideas.
2. Look into national or international communities
If your thing isn’t tied to location – like travel, personal growth, or entrepreneurship – there are online groups and events that bring people together from everywhere. I’ve made amazing connections through travel expos and business workshops in completely different cities.
3. Volunteer for something that matters to you
Helping out for a cause you believe in can be both fulfilling and social. Whether it’s a local dog shelter, a beach clean-up, or a charity event, you’ll meet people who care about the same things. And even if it’s just once or twice – it’s still a chance to connect with someone new.
4. Check out Meetup.com or similar platforms
Meetup was basically made for this. Want to join a book club? Hiking group? Dungeons & Dragons crew? There’s probably a Meetup near you already running it. And if not, you could always start one – chances are, others are looking too.
5. Join online groups and friend-making apps
You’d be surprised how many people are on the same page. There are Facebook groups, forums, and even apps made specifically for finding friends (not just dating). Don’t be afraid to post or comment – everyone’s there to connect.
6. Find a support group if you're going through something
Sometimes friendship starts from shared struggles. Whether it's grief, anxiety, infertility, or just feeling stuck – there are groups (online or in-person) where people support each other. It’s a softer, more open way to meet people who truly understand what you're going through.
7. Start your own group
Can’t find what you’re looking for? Start it. A book club, game night, walking group – whatever you’re into. You might be surprised how many others were waiting for someone to take the first step. Years ago, I started a small travel club because I didn’t know anyone who liked the same stuff. Some of those people are still in my life today.
8. Talk to people during your day
It’s easy to keep our heads down – especially when scrolling on our phones – but the world is full of little moments to connect. At the coffee shop, in a queue, waiting outside a class – a small “hey” can turn into a full conversation if you're open to it. I used to be shy about this too, but once I got into the habit of being a bit more present and curious, it got easier.
9. Host something simple
Invite a few people out – nothing fancy. Maybe a game night, a walk in the park, or brunch at your place. You don’t need a reason or a big crowd. Sometimes, all people need is a little push. Post in a local group, message a few people – and see who shows up.
10. Ask for introductions
Let your friends (or even coworkers or neighbors) know you're open to meeting new people. Sometimes they’ll think of someone who would get along great with you. One of my closest friends today was introduced to me by someone I barely knew. A little courage and a quick message can go a long way.
What it all comes down to:
Making new friends takes effort. You’ve got to be willing to take small risks – to show up, speak up, or reach out. But the reward? Real, deep, lasting connection. And that’s always worth it.
So, go ahead – take that first step. The right people might be closer than you think.